MrBond...the problem right now is that I don't know what is right. Right to me would be to console her when she hurts, to talk about what's bothering her, to discuss how to work things out, but as you know, she wants none of that from me.
So the answers lie in DR I hope. They lie in turning 180. They lie in bettering myself so that I can handle it no matter the outcome. I understand that these are what I need to do. I want this to work. It is the detaching from her that is difficult, but as it was said earlier..,she has fired me from being her husband.
If those aren't what she wants from you, then it's not what's right. Those actions right now would be for you, not her.
