you are right. i told him I have been to see a lawyer and I am done with this [censored]. He needs to fix it or get out. He chugged a beer and went to bed and said, i need time to sort this out in my head but I am not ready to work on it with you. He also repeatedly told me that when I use the word marriage it infuriates him, makes him feel like he is trapped. screamed at me to stop using the word marriage. how ridiculous.
now i have accomplished nothing but making myself more sad and frustrated.
I want to go full dark on him. How do i do that while he is here. I feel he should no longer be allowed to pop and in out of our life at will. if he calls me, i will not answer. If he texts, then no reply. Right?
Why do you want to go dark? What do you hope to accomplish?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
