I'm glad you spoke to the mistress. Sometimes we have to wait patiently for info to reveal itself and it appears now you have more pieces to the puzzle and can understand a bit more of what is possibly driving this man to do and say the things he's doing.
Did he lose his job or did he resign so that he didn't have to pay more in support to both you and the mistress? Sometimes they do this kind of thing just to stick it to us and the judicial system. Now, he's got another child w/the ow/wife. W/his track record, he may not be w/her for very long either.
I am glad you are out of the marriage...but I will be even happier when this man stops the nasty behavior towards you.
