Hi Irish, I think you did fine too. I do shake my head with the whole - 'they should be happy for me' mentality. I hope at some point she appreciates the impact of her poor choices and takes steps to repair things - if not with you, at least with the girls. You don't want to spend your whole life out of touch with your daughters and blaming them for that.
But that's on her and either she will or she won't get her own chit together..
Take care and always strive for compassion WRT her....she doesn't sound to be in a great place just now. Xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus