Hi Amy, I didn't experience what you have as I moved out after BD. It must be hard having everything the same, but a big hole where your H was. I really think this is where GAL comes in - taking steps to rebuild your own life after his choice to leave. What that consists of is up to you - that could include redecorating the master bedroom or whatever you want to do really. What things are you doing just for you my friend?

I think the main thing is to look after your own needs and your own comfort. Give yourself what he isn't providing, and worry less about the possible impact on your M....

Take care :)xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus