In the beginning I played basketball golf poker and she kind of fit I where she could. I stopped going to church and that really bothered her.
The last 6 yrs I have spent quality time with her and the boys(that was her love language) when there was a conflict in events I would do the family thing instead of my own. I coached my kids basketball teams and was willing to help her with anything she needed help with. I am also the main provider,she works 2 days a week for some spending money.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17