"The first 10-12 years she said that she felt neglected"

What did you do during that time in terms of what she feels was neglect?

"started to focus on being a good dad and husband."

In your mind, what did being a "good husband" mean?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER