The first 10-12 years she said that she felt neglected but she is not one to share her feelings so I wasn't aware how much it bothered her. 6 yrs ago I had an awakening and started to focus on being a good dad and husband. Go to church go to all the bday parties help around the house. She even said in C that the last 5 yrs have been the best of our marriage and then came the EA. She said the blow up from that made her realize that she never dealt with her feelings of resentment from before.


Me:42 W:37
M:18 T:23
3S: 4,7,10
EA 6/16
ILYBNILWY 7/16
9/16 separate BR
10/16 Discernment Counseling
She's moving out 1/17