You are getting some awesome advice and support here
a few things that may help you to get in more alignment to detach and let go
Alanon is a 12 step program and many of the meetings revolve around letting the alcoholic be..detaching and taking care of yourself-accepting things as they are
I know your Wife is in MLC and not alcoholic but it is similar
Meetings are free ..and it helps to read about detaching and letting go there are lots of books and internet material on letting go.. but reading it daily helps to get in that mindset
Melanie Beattie is a great writer ob this subject The language of letting go is an awesome book its a daily reader on one topic -only one page a day it really helps
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