Originally Posted By: kdvor
Help i am about to blow. I have a meeting with my counselor tomorrow and I keep telling myself to hold on until i speak with her. But not sure i can...


What are your goals? Will blowing move you closer to or farther from your goals?

Can you blow by writing it all in a journal and then tearing it up? I did that more than once.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16