Need some help here guys. So a little back story. 2 weeks ago my wife went alone over night a couple states away to run a race. I was suspicious but didn't ask any questions. The next weekend she went out over night with gfs that I know well and stayed over night after getting trashed. The next day she seemed very sick I figured she was hung over. The next day she had a fever of 103 and went to the dr. She said it was viral and got an antiviral medication. FF to today I find next to her bed the prescription for valtrex which is for cold sores or genital herpes. I look up that the first outbreak of genital herpes can come with a high fever and body aches. Her symptoms. I also found prescription murpirocin ointment in the bathroom.

I think this is enough to confirm my suspicions of the EA turning into a PA. Unless someone else has an excuse for this. We have counseling tomorrow. What should I do.


Me:42 W:37
M:18 T:23
3S: 4,7,10
EA 6/16
ILYBNILWY 7/16
9/16 separate BR
10/16 Discernment Counseling
She's moving out 1/17