She is in therapy. It she keeps trying to re-engage the OM. He keeps trying her away and she keeps asking why he doesn't want her, and asking to talk and telling him how heartbroken she is that he is disengaged.
I don't know how long this has been going on, but when I think back, she has always been obsessed with him as a friend and college - probably over 5 years!
Update tonight: saw some emails and he apparently attempted to end things for Good Friday night after work. Her message was to him how sad she is that they are no longer "connected." Her exact email:
"I woke up so sad this morning. I know you don't care anymore but it breaks my heart we are not connected anymore. It felt like such a final moment yesterday and made me so depressed because I know it's over. I won't bother you over the weekend but I am so hurt and you are so hurt and it's a terrible place to be. "
she is meeting with him to discuss their "breakup" today and just booked a hotel due to a late night workt event she has in the city by her office (which I know is legit). Her emails to him went on to ask to talk before the event mentioning she had a room but not mentioning that they get together. Her Tone was short cold and to the point.
