Hmmmm....no isn't this something familiar. FB message from cousin two-three months ago stating "I told her you can run from [CT118], but you can't run from you. And then she deleted me as a friend". FWIW ForGump.
I think this is pretty common. WW are just looking for yes men. If you're not one. You're out.
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FG - you can handle this my friend. Your sheer tenacity of effort here and the brevity of your input prove it...to me, for sure, to you?
It starts with you FG. I know the person in the threads i have been reading can handle this. No doubt.
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Mulesqb - you are an elevated soul my good man, what a fantastic statement. In fact, the best we all could hope for, should it not go the piece'ing direction for us, IMHO. Not that piecing is most important as long as "self-ing" is met.
thx CT. Honestly time helps. An old poster who I respect more than anyone (who has recently showed up here...his name is Bworl...he was an absolute rock for me), sent me a excerpt years ago about forgiveness. It was one of the most important things I have read in my life. I will look back in my posts and see if I can find it to re-post it. I think you will like it. If I find it I will post on your thread. Understand, it probably took me about two years after he sent it to me before I could put it into action.
The other part is the kids. If one of their parents struggle, they struggle. If they see their parents not getting along, they struggle. If you have kids, once you have yourself in shape they are an incredible source for strength. You want to show them how to handle adversity. You want to show them integrity. You want to shield them from as much of your situation as you can. Trust me, they are sooo much better off and I have proof of that.
You guys will all get there no matter how things play out. As we talked about on your thread, enjoy the ride. Redefining yourself in your adulthood is a major life event. One that plants the seeds for the next phase. It's up to one's self how that goes.
Strength and Honor.
Mules
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"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
