A stronger me for whatever the future holds

[PacLove]

Been a week now since the moving truck showed up - most of the her stuff out of the house and I clarified to her that I wanted the rest out by the end of the month - setting boundaries....

Interestingly enough, twice in the last week she made some reference to "if we get back together..."

Two things been on my mind recently

1) With respect to custody, at first she still wanted D10 to stay at the house weekdays instead of her place, for more consistency.

Pro: I get to see her more and would technically have 70/30 custody

Con: W basically absolves herself of the morning duties, still has access to house and limits me as I either need to be home by her bedtime or allow W to "watch" her until I get home. I'm leaning towards having her go to W's place mid week to get "used" to separation. A D friend of mine tried this and said it didn't work out for him - too rushed to get the kid home by bedtime each night.

2) The other one is more Faith based, I really struggle to see my W living the way she is living right now - and want to jump in and try and save her but this is clearly anti-DB. Anyone else struggle with this? I pray for her daily... but question whether there is more we can do. Any mention of religion, church etc has usually been met with a lot of resistance for obvious reasons.