So W just calls saying D is spending the night with her. But she has no food or money to buy food for them to eat. Wants to know if they can eat with me. Of course I said yes. Don't know if I'm being used or what. Still not giving her money.
Nope. She usually asks D if she wants to spend the night without me knowing. I'm the last to find out. It's always on a night when it's convenient for her other "activities".
Then you need to come up with a schedule and have her stick to it. If you're worried about the welfare of your kids, then you have them and have her start putting in requests that will have to be approved by you way in advance. Start putting your foot down.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Now W all of a sudden doesn't have room in her bedroom for D to spend the night. It's to "cluttered". Don't know how it got so cluttered in the last 2 hours. She's still coming to eat though. D didn't really want to spend the night anyway. She feels obligated. Wonder if this would count as W bailing on D yet again?
You are a good guy that is being dealt a shitty hand. You have to rise above it.
Your W's $hit is not about you, it's about her. Now this is not me saying you are faultless, but your W is having problems with herself, so you would want to put some distance between you and her.
Now W all of a sudden doesn't have room in her bedroom for D to spend the night. It's to "cluttered". Don't know how it got so cluttered in the last 2 hours. She's still coming to eat though. D didn't really want to spend the night anyway. She feels obligated. Wonder if this would count as W bailing on D yet again?
Well, this definitely counts as her managing to get a free meal out you.
