Today would have been my 19th wedding anniversary. Have been exchanging emails with Mr. Fantastic all day about logistics like transferring the IRA, sharing kids over the holidays, and him changing the weekday schedule AGAIN. Not once has either of us observed the day to one another. Nor have we since he moved out.

Today I cried for the first time in many months. My FB memories are all about things like how excited I was to marry him, how adventurous our life together had been, and he had posted our engagement picture four years ago. I saw that picture and all I could think was, he was already cheating on me when he posted that. What a hypocrite.

I'm so well rid of him. But I'm still sad for how the story turned out.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.