When she says stuff like this... "Saying that we should agree on everything. ", tell her that while you respect her opinion, she can't tell you what to do.
When my sitch first started, my W told me I had to move out because she was unhappy. I laughed at her and told her that if SHE was the one who was unhappy, then she should move out because I was perfectly happy at home. That's when you start taking a stand and they start seeing that you're not going to do everything they want you to.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.