I think my wife is in MLC and it seems hopeless

[SBJ]

The W just called me at the office asking if there is any reason I would fight her in court. Saying that we should agree on everything. She said that we should spare our kids a lengthy and nasty court battle. She said that if I don't drag her name thru the mud that she wouldn't have to tell everyone about what I did to her after she had her surgery. What an unveiled threat. She also said that her attorney would contact her once the papers are finished and that I could look at them at that time.

It is crazy to me how someone, even going thru a MLC, could just throw it all away. She kept using the reasons that I listed before such as the lack of intimacy, the lack of hand holding, etc. All things that I have tried to keep alive during our relationship (25 yrs), only to have her not want at the time. Now she wants it just not with me...stab!