Well, you've got the good friend & parent part down, pretty good.....it's the M that seems to be the stumbling block. What were you like, during the time you were divorced from each other? Did you act like a confident man who had his b@lls firmly attached? If so, then that was the main ingredient that attracted her back. (If she was indeed attracted, and did not have another reason). I'm not saying that other things are not important in a MR, but I am talking about a man and woman attraction factor. Not standing up for yourself is a sure attraction killer in a relationship.
Yeah you are right... Back when we got back together the 2nd time she was impressed because I started being confident, doing things for myself, living my own life. She said that's what attracted her to come back to me. But now I am questioning all that.. recently she has told me the only reason she came back was because it was easy and I was so comfortable. Part of me wants to believe that is the part where you aren't supposed to believe anything they say and only half of what they do. I guess that's why I feel defeated today... Its beginning to look like no matter what I do we will be heading to a divorce.
I know I am sounding whiny and not confident today... which is surly unattractive. Its time to go and read, follow the rules, and start living my life for me and my kids.
Me:37 W:30 S10 S9 D3 M-Sept 2004 D-Nov 2007 Reconcile Sept 2010 Re-Married Sept 2014 BD ILYBNILWY - April 2016 W Wants to Move to Apartment - Sept 2016 W Moved to Apartment - Nov 10 2016
