Thank you for your prayers and support. I know we all need prayers dealing with not only life but ex's too.
Today I tried to reschedule a child support modification meeting set for Thurs. I called the attorney general's office to reschedule it last week and they documented the call. When I called today to find out the new date, she tells me that it doesn't change unless XH also agrees. UGH! I said we arent speaking and I don't know if he'll agree.
sure enough, they called him and he said no.
I practically begged him by text and voicemail to change the date cuz I have a CT scan and dr appt that day. I had gotten the days mixed up and thought it was today but it's Thurs. I told him that I'm on a clinical trial and they don't change appointments.
He refused.
I also said (by text) that I'd still meet with him but he didn't respond. He said in his earlier text that he figured he'd see me Thurs. so that's why he didn't respond to meeting me the other days I suggested.
I said I'd agree to Fri morning or Sunday afternoon. ---- NO RESPONSE.
UGH! Now if I don't show up to this hearing...it'll have to go to court which means Court costs plus more fees. He said that he's strapped and cant afford an attorney. ??? I said if he doesn't reschedule it'll go to court and cost both of us time and money. He still hasn't told me where he's working either.
UPDATE: I've made contact with the last mistress who has his other son -5 yrs old. She said she's been wanting to talk to me but didn't know if I'd talk to her. She responded to my text quite friendly. She said my XH hasn't seen their son in 2yrs (since he moved in with this new woman/wife).
I just told her that maybe we can help each other in our cases...she agreed. We'll talk tonight. I said XH isn't being nice. She said he's evil and she doesn't care for the new wife. She says the new wife is the reason XH doesn't visit his son. It's really both of them cuz when he was married to me, I'd make him drive 6 hrs with me and my children to go visit his son. Remember, I 'm the one who told him to file a paternity suit because she didn't list him on the birth certificate. XH hated the idea of going through a hearing and child support case. He hated driving and he treated his other son differently. I just accepted my stepson as one of my own. It isn't the child's fault on how he came to this earth.
Just like I tell my children that they have a new sister with their dad and it's not her fault she was born under these circumstances. Not forcing love but acknowledge that there's a new baby. Be nice.
So sad. :-(
I'll fill y'all in tomorrow.
In His Love
VGE1
Romans 8:28
Praying for wisdom, protection and discernment. xoxo
