Me and my 2 daughters

[Irish M]

Job , your 2 cents are always welcome. I did message her saying she could call between 10-11am. She decided to text.
Saying she doesn't understand the girls not wanting to reach out to her. That she has tried in the past.

I messaged her back and it went like this:

ME: You chose a different path and your actions towards the girls have played a huge part in them not wanting to be part of your new life with OM. I don't want to repeat all the things that you did as I have pointed them out over the past year.

HER: they really hate me. what kind of kids would not be happy for me. If they can't accept i am happy I will cut all communication to them and you and will not try again.

ME: up to you. I can't help you with the relationship with the girls. I won't stand in the way unless i feel they are in any danger.

HER: your insults and accusations do not affect me. I am happy. I wish you and the girls a happy life lolll i wont reach out again.

ME: insults? accusations: I point out the truth. if that hurts its on you. I will not allow you to blame the girls or me for your broken relationship with them. It is all on you. Again you have forgotten your actions and you are blaming them. Seriously this has to end. I won't accept that you put this on them. take care. No need for a call since you still can't accept your part in all this.

No reply...

so i guess the collateral of the girls is not a concern for her. Her sister said it best. " i'm so glad the girls are with you Irish"

Cali. truth darts are attacks and insults to her. wow.
I actually got a good laugh out of today's interaction. She is wayyyy out there. What mom blows off her kids like that .. oh wait my XW.

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