I just really thought that we had an awesome story.. got married the first time.. that didn't work out so we divorce. We remained good friends and parents. We decide we want to get back together and get married again.
Well, you've got the good friend & parent part down, pretty good.....it's the M that seems to be the stumbling block. What were you like, during the time you were divorced from each other? Did you act like a confident man who had his b@lls firmly attached? If so, then that was the main ingredient that attracted her back. (If she was indeed attracted, and did not have another reason). I'm not saying that other things are not important in a MR, but I am talking about a man and woman attraction factor. Not standing up for yourself is a sure attraction killer in a relationship.
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Its eating me up that she is just seeing me as a friend/caretaker/etc...
So.....change it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
