I have followed your sitch from post one .... as DB as this sounds I am sorry to hear that you feel this way but I am not really that surprised. In your situation you have a massive cake eater and you have armed yourself with a shovel thinking he will get fat and tired of it which is why you do not have a monster on your hands trying to escape. By 'helping and being there for him' you are actually just enabling him and in return you are not happy, you are not GALing or trying to grow so essentially you both will sadly be stuck for some time.
