I do not want to loose this community it has helped me in my darkest times
I am not upset. Nobody said you would lose this community. You need support. I am trying to find out how we can support you. That is why I asked what you want from us.
I am really glad to hear you are seeing the therapist who is digging into your childhood. I hope you will see that therapist as often as you possibly can. Telling us just this much gives me a sense of hope for you. It tells us you are doing "something" to get help for yourself. Maybe I forgot, but I don't remember you telling us about a therapist talking about your past and how it affects you now. You've had several to ask if you were seeing a therapist about yourself, instead of just the MR. Do you see what I mean, Ghost? It would have helped us if you had just gave us that little bit. So, now we know.
Maybe you can try to answer some other questions. How about trying to respond to things SH is saying, and don't repeat that same old post about what your W wants/don't want and what you should/should not do. Okay? Am I making any sense?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
