My Girlfriend and my Divorce

[CRW]

" I didn't expect us to fall quickly. "

This is the reason why we ALWAYS tell newcomers to work on themselves so they are not dependent on another person to make them happy. You were needy and she was too based on her literally just having a kid. That emotional intensity you felt was just limerence which never lasts. How are you with your W right now?

We are getting along 'ok'. We have mediation scheduled for 3.5 weeks from now, I think if we can get an agreement done we should be able to co parent effectively.

I guess I see the part about co dependence, but gf isn't the first girl I dated. There was and is something about her that I am really attracted to.

As far as dating myself, that is an interesting concept. I am going to give it a try. Honestly though, my biggest focus right now is in the gym, trying to get my legs back so I can get back into sports and stuff. I'm also getting my MBA, so that takes a lot of time as well.

So, when she contacts me, do I respond? Right now we pretty much talk all day everyday still.