Thank you Feyth. Yes, I do wish my H was different. I just miss him dreadfully and I am not coping well. He is just moving way to fast -- at first he was confused and now he is speeding through everything. I am an emotional rollercoaster .. one minute I'm okay and dealing, the next I'm crying hysterically.

Any tips on delaying / preventing if he does file? We are in Texas -- so we only have 60 day waiting period.

ALSO -- This week my H is getting everything moved over so he can start paying his own bills and I will no longer have access to his paycheck. I have been helping him do this since I always paid all the bills. I assume that is what I should do? Should I try to delay this process or is it better that he starts handling his own finances?


Me: 42
Him: 45
Daughter: 13
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Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years
BD: 8/15/16
Moved out: 8/26/16