I completely agree with you. You are attracted to what you attracted to. And it is a matter of lifestyle.
My first online date ever he had no body shots. Well, he was about 400lbs. He broke out into a sweat and turned white as a ghost out of no where at dinner. I had to ask him if he was ok, he looked that bad. He told me he never sees a doctor.......
I work out. I like to be active. Am I thin? No. I am strong and curvy. But the point is, I need someone who could at least keep up on a little hike or a walk on a beach, and not have a heart attack during dinner.
Not shallow at all.
I'm all about dad bod. A little belly that shows they still enjoy beer and wings, and a little bit of bicep that shows they attempt to work out:)
