"No. never broke up. Together straight through from first week of my junior year and her sophomore year of college all the way through."
Ok, I think she really does want a change because she doesn't know any better. Many times when there are people who have been together for a really long time and never really got to go out and "experience" others, they feel like this. They don't know any better so are willing to take the chance on something new.
How have you kept things new and exciting before? Or did you just let things get complacent in your M?
I think it's a mix. We've always had a great time with experienced. Traveling, friends, parties, etc. it wasn't until she dropped 70 lbs and did well in fitness competitions that the real changes started. It's as if the attention she got gave her the mindset that she was settling just because we were together for so long. I asked her for 18 years to go kayaking. She had no interest at all. None. A couple of weeks ago she posted pictures of her kayaking (you could see the OM in the banckground). When I asked her about it she told me she just didn't want to with me because she never liked me inclusive of when I asked her to go on our honeymoon in Mexico.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
