Hi Irish! You sound good in your posts too. I lurk but don't post much.....I know what you mean about S expectations, I have thought of it too. I think he is ok, in fact, I think he prefers our home to be just him and I, with visits from daddy. He recently said his favorite night is Friday night because its just me and him hanging out and staying up late. It's good advice though and I will keep my eye on that.

Hi Ciluzen, it's good to hear from you. I am in a calm peaceful place, although I do have my moments, but they pass. I feel I finally found a place that works well, for now, but don't want to live this way forever smile It feels like I am moving, flowing slowly, towards something good smile

Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-