I think my wife is in MLC and it seems hopeless

[SBJ]

She called me out again last night and said that she will never be able to get over the fact that when sex was painful after her surgery that I still had sex with her. She says she feels that I abused her and will never be able to be intimate with me again because of it.

I told her that I am truly sorry, but didn't really understand the depth of the discomfort back then and she would simply tell me that we could. Had she told me that she would cut it off if I tried again, then I think I would have understood the depth. We could have then talked about a game plan to pray together and get thru it together.

Eventually the pain and discomfort stopped, but now she has built up this resentment towards me that seems unending.