Hey doodler, when a woman presents herself one way and then you find out she's another (whether it's duplicate profiles or in person)...run don't walk! I find that people show you who they are really fast in online dating and the trick is to accept it and move on...without guilting yourself! Someone once told me on here "when a woman tells you she's mean, believe her" I didn't and paid for it. Did you get the cap back at least?
whatisis,
Yep, I totally agree with you - run doodler run! Funny thing about the cap; in our conversations she'd hinted that she wanted a specific color cap (team colors). I was going to bring her a new cap on our first date. I'm glad I didn't buy a cap before I found the second profile.