I think my wife is in MLC and it seems hopeless

[SBJ]

The reason I ask is that she is using the MC as a Divorce Facilitator. Getting advice on how best to tell our children that we are divorcing. This is killing me. I cannot believe that she can be so calm about all of this.

Her mother even called me saying that just because things aren't working our between us that I am still welcome to come on vacation with the entire family over the Thanksgiving Break. I'm torn...we haven't told our children...yet. And if we don't by then, should I go out of obligation to my kids?

My W and her mother seem to think that after a D we will all still be one cozy family. I have told them that D will end our M and our friendship. My W said that families don't end...they just get restructured. What a crock.