I think your h is envious of what you've accomplished, i.e., new car and the purchase of a condo. He sees that you are moving forward and are a very independent woman who is getting things done. Right now, he's not going to congratulate on these things because of this.
Your h will respond back to you...be patient.
If you aren't sure about whether you want him to know that the door is jar, then do nothing, but sit quietly for now.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
