So do I just not show up for the MC or do I tell her that I'm not going?
No, you absolutely don’t “just not show up”!
You have to tell her if you are the one deciding to end MC. Maybe say something like you’re not sure it’s helpful right now, and/or that you feel it’s best you both just take a little break.
She said she’s working on herself, you need to do so also.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
