Just a follow up questions: Should I be doing stuff for him when he asks like wrapping a gift he bought?
He mentioned last night we need to get our koi pond winterized. Usually, this means, I will call and take care of it. Should I do it?
We have a ton of social stuff coming up. Stuff we usually do together. I know he will go if I mention the events to him. Perhaps I don't mention anything at all.
Lastly, in 3 weeks we have a trip to Atlantis planned with our kids and family friends. 2 weeks ago he mentioned cancelling it and that he didn't want to go. I said, that's fine, I'll go by myself. Then he was taken back and said "What would you say why I didn't come". I said "I don't know, haven't thought about it. Maybe the truth, maybe not. Doesn't really matter". He seemed unsettled with that convo, but I stopped it.
Finally, one thing that seems to be getting to him is that I have been hanging out with a friend who is recently divorced "husband cheated with nanny". Assumming I should keep spending lots of visible time with her. Right? Should I try to capitalize on this.
