Good update, Mleigh! You sound very at ease with your situation right now; very calm and good with yourself. I feel that maybe your H can see/feel that, too? You have created a safe, comfortable place for him to return to when he feels he can, even if he can only do it in short bursts. I think you get the lighthouse idea very well.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.