Good update, Mleigh! You sound very at ease with your situation right now; very calm and good with yourself. I feel that maybe your H can see/feel that, too? You have created a safe, comfortable place for him to return to when he feels he can, even if he can only do it in short bursts. I think you get the lighthouse idea very well.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16