I think you have proven you can handle the kids without your W. I think you love your boys and want what is best for them. I also feel that you are so weary........and down deep in your heart, you want your W to have the kids full time and you work. That is as close to the way life was before all this mess started. It is exhausting to hold down a job, keep up a home, and raise a big family alone. I get it.

I think you are so tired........and see no relief in the near future, that you are willing to give her the kids and every penny she wants, just to get out. You want out of this situation. You want to be free of it, focus on work and GAL, and you'll still see the boys......but it won't be the pressure you feel right now.

I won't say anymore about the move........or at least, I will try not to say anything else.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!