Thanks all. Yes I read all the books and all the posts. I still have a question - How do you know if / and when he is coming out of MLC.
The past few nights he comes to my bed and lays next to me watching TV rather than sitting downstairs drinking and watching on his own. He calls me about kids bday gifts and even hugs and kisses me at times (few) and asks how I am. Left this morning and asked me to wrap sons bday gift. I am responding kindly but I don't reach out or approach at all which makes me feel like I am walking around COLD all of the time. Is there a point where is he approaching and I stay distant that he will feel like i really am a cold "robot"?
