Her 40th birthday is this weekend so I'm going to wait until after that for sure. Should I let the A. Take its course before I confront?
I have heard telling her you have to have your facts lined up and your next steps crystal clear. I know her personality and I feel if I can't show conclusive evidence I will get avoidance and deflection. Wont be productive. I'm starting the no. Ore me nice guy routine. Again she sees a change.