Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

SH

Goals - how about:

1 - To continue detaching
2 - To be the best version of me
3 - To create boundaries where necessary - which have consequences (this is tricky for my BTW)
4 - GAL

I have some other struggles you will have read. I really feel some anguish as it is my opinion that my W will only feel financial and custodial consequences at the moment (she is checked out still but we get the odd glimmer - which may mean nothing and I need to observe this only). What I mean is she is just trotting along nicely and has not consequences as such. I think in part a tougher stance might work as me just playing nice or being dark is not doing much. I am at a loss what to do. You will seem comments on separation agreements etc. I would appreciate advice here. Been reading Crimson's story recently PsySara put me on to it. There are some similarities here.

Thanks again.

Surfer.