DDJ, I get what you are saying. But I can't sit by and allow that to happen. I know god forbid if he did something it would be all on him, but I can't allow that to happen. I said this isn't to do with saving my m, that's not even in my thoughts. I'm concerned with saving a life. If this was anyone else, anyone. I would do my best to help, because I can't sit back and allow that to happen. He's also the father to my children, and they need him. Even if that's him not with me, I don't care, I have a toddler constantly asking about him who loves him.

Thanks surfer, I know what you mean. Maybe he is just having a difficult time, and he really needs to see an ic. I'm just concerned from the way he talks, he is just so down he thinks he is beyond that and isn't willing to try. And I know that's all out of my hands.

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16