I like what darknes is saying. I'm learning to date myself, we're getting along well, going to movies, coffee and eating out. Haven't gotten to second base yet but it's only been a few months so in time i'll push the envelope. LOL

But seriously, it is simple co-depence. NO point in detaching from STBXWW and then detaching to what really is a "baby momma".

Find yourself - ALONE. Give STBXWW the kids if you must, live your life by yourself - cos you are going to die alone, and that's ok. It's ok to be alone. It really is.


Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.