Hi NDY

Found what I was being referenced to! Glad that your S is coping OK. I know you can't be there for her when she pulls out, and I know the reasons, but I'm glad you are having some peace.

Hi Esame

Yes, it's all just referred to as the Autistic Spectrum (or ASD), but labels still exist in an unofficial form (for my S it's ADD).

At the moment, I have to provide the best, most loving environment whilst he is with me. I can argue my piece with W, but she isn't in 'listening' mode, I don't think I'll have any luck. I don't know about your H, but my W delivers her sermons when she's leaving, trying to sting me and leave me with a bad feeling. I now just let it ride over me. It's the best way.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015