A WW? (5)

[DonH]

I have to agree with fade here. It's almost like dealing with an abused spouce or someone living in dysfunction and after a while it becomes normal so what really is normal no longer makes sense. It's nearly as if your W could say, "LT, you don't know how to take care of D. You have to hop on one foot while twirling your underwear on your finger before your pour her milk." And you would answer "help me to understand W so I can learn how to do these things correctly." I swear that's how crazy things have gotten and you somehow continue to let her lead you around by the nose like this! You have to stop allowing her craziness. She really is the crazy one here who has fabricated an alternate reality and you are falling for all of it. You know how many kids have ZERO probiotic added to their water and yet they don't get sick? Yet your batshit crazy wife tries to tell you that you are going to get D sick and you stand there saying "I'm sorry." See why I say it's nearly like you are an abused spouce in the depths of dysfunction? We are back to where we were with doing the meds "correctly". I don't want to be mean but do you really need us to tell you how crazy this is?

You really need to man up here or never mind getting w back - you will lose your D 90% of the time. How can W have respect for someone she belittles on a daily basis? Again, I don't want to join W in berating you but you have to call her out on this nonsense! At this point if it's W talking about taking care of D, it's likely nonsense. Who makes W right about all of it and you wrong? Who? Only if you allow it, my friend - only if you allow it!