Thank you everyone ... I think I was just plain shocked today. Just hurt to read the things he said.
I am in therapy and I really like my therapist .. but she does not believe in mlc or saving a marriage once the other spouse is done. I have asked her to help me with my boundary issues and self esteem. I almost wonder if I need to find someone else.
Also, I have been doing some reading today on the forums. I found a post about the mlc being selfish and the lbs being a conflict avoider enabler. that is definitely me. Anyone else realize that about themselves? Any tips on how they worked on that?
Me: 42 Him: 45 Daughter: 13 ____________________________________ Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years BD: 8/15/16 Moved out: 8/26/16
