Jim, why are you agreeing with her directly about important things? There is no need to change citizenship for the boys, they can have dual until 18.

I'm worried about your interactions with her.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17