I did not take it as scolding, I understand we all might have slightly different views on things, and I took it more like tough love; j20a feels strongly about how I should be around my W and I appreciate him giving me his thoughts with no sugar coating.
I also appreciate bulldogs and Mr bond thoughts, and I try to take what I learn from everyone plus DR and make the right choices.
I do think giving get space is the right play still, and I'm actually out watching game football right now.
fwiw, W has been friendly, but I'm not reading glasses anything into it. while I sure she's ended the A with the OM, I'm a little paranoid about her trying to find another. it could be just general paranoia from a LBH, but Im just worried. its harder to snoop now, she put pw on her phone, and she set her laptop browser to remember nothing.
Anyway, we do have programs we watch together still. last night, we watched a show together and we'll probably watch more tomorrow. night. there's little talk when we do, but we've just done it that way for so long.
again, I appreciate all the advice, tough or not, I can take it. I honestly just want to save my M and I want to take the right steps to do it.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
