Was asked to go to dinner tonight with her and the girls. First time in probably a month. It was a nice time. On the way back the youngest D mentioned something about last names. It was then that W asked me if it would be ok that she not change her name. I told her it was her decision.

Later after she was dropped off she texted asking me about an upcoming Disney trip. She mentioned before our nephew going and I mentioned to her that I would like it to be the 4 of us because it will most likely be our last trip as a family. She said "ok that's fine" and I asked if it was a valid point and she said "yes".

Do as I say not as I do. Shouldn't have asked cause now I feel like crap.


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17