The MLCer who stays home (and does not move) recreates his childhood home. The spouse becomes the authority figure against whom they begin to rebel.
Oh my God, I'm seeing this is what's happening with my W. She comes & goes as she pleases, but she's been accusing me of trying to control her. I couldn't understand why. It's because I'm her dad now. [Long exhale.....]
M: 51, W: 47 T: 22 M: 15 S17, S13, S12 BD: Jan '16 W files: Oct '16 D final: June '18