I think my wife is in MLC and it seems hopeless

[SBJ]

Guys the problem is that she doesn't want to be friends right now, nor to be married to me anymore. She has filled in the paperwork and wants me to agree that we have been good friends for 25 years, but that our marriage has been dysfunctional.

I told her that D would be an end to our family and to our friendship...she seems to think that we can be divorced and be best friends...don't know if I'm wired like that.

I do not want a D. I cannot in good conscience tell my kids that. I cannot tell her that. I cannot tell myself that. That would all be a lie.

I understand that she is in a confused state, but that doesn't change how I feel.

Should I not go back to MC with her? We have an appt on Thursday...

How do you tell the woman you love that you are bowing out of your marriage to give them space and let them find themselves. What if that door that you left ajar happens to close...from either side?